The Moon, the Feminine and the Crystals
The October moon phases carry a quiet kind of beauty. The air feels different, the light softens, and the world slows just enough for us to notice what we have been missing. It is the month when the veil between seen and unseen thins, and the Moon seems to glow more brightly against the dark.
This is a time for reflection and gentle transformation. Each phase of the Moon brings a lesson in how to move through change without fear. The sky will guide us through illumination, rest, renewal, and release, and each step is a mirror for what we hold within ourselves.
I have added links to the crystals that I am working with this month so you can explore them in our Mystic Grove collection if they call to you. They have been chosen for their vibration and the way they flow with October’s rhythm. Together they support peace, courage, and clarity.
Understanding the Nine Moon Phases in October
The Moon’s rhythm in October unfolds through nine beautiful phases, each lasting about three or four days. These are not fixed moments, but tides of energy that flow gently from one to the next.
New Moon – 21 October
The sky is still and dark. This is the space where seeds of intention are planted.
Crystals: Clear Quartz for clarity, Labradorite for transformation, Moonstone for intuition.
Waxing Crescent – 22 to 27 October
A soft glow begins to form. Take one small step toward what you wish to create.
Crystals: Citrine for motivation, Carnelian for courage and action.
First Quarter – 29 October
Half the Moon shines, bringing a sense of progress and testing our resolve.
Crystals: Tiger’s Eye for focus, Pyrite for determination.
Waxing Gibbous – 30 September to 6 October
Small adjustments matter now. Look at what feels aligned and what does not.
Crystals: Fluorite for clarity, Amethyst for calm reflection.
Full Moon – 7 October (in Aries)
Emotions rise and everything comes into focus. This is the moment of truth.
Crystals: Amethyst, Moonstone, Clear Quartz.
Waning Gibbous – 8 to 12 October
A soft, grateful energy follows the light of the Full Moon. Count your blessings.
Crystals: Rose Quartz for compassion, Green Aventurine for balance.
Last Quarter – 13 October (in Cancer)
It is time to let go. The past few weeks have shown what no longer serves you.
Crystals: Smoky Quartz for grounding, Obsidian for truth and protection.
Waning Crescent – 14 to 20 October
Rest and integration. Allow space for the body and mind to slow.
Crystals: Howlite for calm, Lepidolite for emotional balance.
Dark Moon – 20 to 21 October (in Libra)
The sacred pause before renewal. Nothing to do, nowhere to be.
Crystals: Black Tourmaline for cleansing, Selenite for spiritual light.
Working With Your Crystals Through October’s Moon Phases
The crystals listed in Understanding the Nine moon Phases form the base set for October. These are your steady lunar companions, the stones that align with each phase of the Moon and help you stay attuned to her rhythm. You can keep them in a small bowl, pouch, or on your altar as a complete cycle, allowing their energy to guide you through each stage.
The crystals mentioned below in The Journey Through October are additional companions chosen for this month’s unique alignments. They build upon the base set, supporting the energies of the Full Moon in Aries, the 10 10 Portal, the Libra New Moon, and Samhain. Think of them as monthly accents, stones that help you fine tune your connection to the Moon’s changing song.
Together these two layers create balance. The base stones carry the consistent rhythm of the lunar cycle, while the monthly companions mirror the melody of the moment. You can work with one or both depending on what you feel drawn to. The key is not to collect but to connect.
The Divine Feminine
The Moon is the oldest teacher of the Divine Feminine. She expands and contracts just as we do. Her light grows strong then fades into darkness, reminding us that both strength and rest are necessary.
During the waxing Moon we are guided to create, build, and express. During the waning Moon we learn to release, reflect, and trust. This flow is not linear. It is the same rhythm found in breath, tide, and heart.
Working with her energy is less about control and more about awareness. When you follow her phases, you learn the art of timing, when to act, when to rest, and when to let go.
Crystals help to anchor this understanding. Amethyst lifts awareness toward intuition. Rose Quartz opens the heart to compassion. Obsidian grounds us when emotions swell. Each one carries a frequency that aligns with a part of this cycle. Together they create a bridge between intention and embodiment.
The Journey Through October’s Moon Phases
1 to 5 October | Aquarius to Pisces Moon
The month begins under the Aquarius Moon which sharpens the mind and encourages new ideas. Try to listen more than you speak and give space for insight to form. Fluorite clears mental noise and Amethyst soothes restless thoughts.
By the 4th, the Moon moves into Pisces and emotions deepen. It is a beautiful time for creativity, dreaming, and meditation. Moonstone helps you trust intuition and Celestite opens connection to the Divine.
6 to 12 October | Full Moon in Aries and the 10 10 Portal
The Full Moon in Aries on 7 October 2025 lights the sky with courage and raw truth. It brings action and sometimes impatience. Pause before reacting and breathe before deciding. Use Carnelian for confidence, Red Jasper for grounding, and Clear Quartz to amplify strength.
On 10 October, the 10 10 Portal opens, marked by angel number 1010. It represents divine alignment and a chance to reset direction. Write ten things you are grateful for and ten intentions for the rest of the year. Citrine brings joy to the process, Labradorite supports transformation, and Pyrite inspires focus.
As the Moon passes through Taurus and Gemini, life lightens. Taurus helps us slow down and appreciate comfort, while Gemini opens conversation and learning.
13 to 19 October | Last Quarter in Cancer and Virgo Order
The Last Quarter Moon in Cancer on 13 October is about healing and forgiveness. Family themes may rise, or you might feel more sensitive. Moonstone and Amazonite encourage emotional balance and gentle communication.
By the 17th, Virgo energy takes over. Organise, clear, and prepare for the new cycle ahead. Smoky Quartz grounds your focus and Fluorite clears the mind for practical progress.
20 to 26 October | Libra New Moon and Scorpio Depths
The Dark Moon in Libra on 20 October is a time to rest and release. The New Moon follows on 21 October, calling for harmony and connection. It is a beautiful time to renew love and balance. Rose Quartz, Green Aventurine, and Kunzite support the heart.
When the Moon shifts into Scorpio on the 23rd, emotions deepen again. Transformation is close, so take time to listen to your intuition. Labradorite helps guide this process, while Malachite supports emotional release.
27 to 31 October | First Quarter in Aquarius and Samhain
The First Quarter Moon in Aquarius on 29 October encourages creativity and steady movement. It is the phase of action, when new ideas from the Libra New Moon begin to take form. Fluorite and Aquamarine help keep communication clear.
Samhain arrives on 31 October, the night when the veil between worlds is at its thinnest. It is the Celtic New Year, a time to honour ancestors and thank the year that has passed. Light a candle, speak names of those who came before you, and feel the peace that follows. Obsidian offers protection, Amethyst strengthens spiritual connection, and Smoky Quartz anchors you to the present.
Crystal Toolkit for October
This month’s toolkit supports courage, release, and renewal. It blends grounding stones for protection, heart-healing crystals for balance, and high-frequency allies for guidance through the 10 10 Portal and Samhain. Keep them together in a pouch or arrange them on your altar as a reflection of the Moon’s journey.
- Labradorite – Transformation and intuition, guiding you through deep emotional shifts.
- Amethyst – Calms the mind, eases tension, and strengthens spiritual awareness.
- Carnelian – Sparks motivation and courage, especially under the Aries Full Moon.
- Rose Quartz – Opens the heart during the Libra New Moon and helps restore emotional balance.
- Smoky Quartz – Grounds energy and protects as the veil thins at Samhain.
- Citrine – Uplifts and aligns with the 10 10 Portal’s abundance energy.
- Obsidian – Offers protection and deep release during waning phases.
- Moonstone – Supports reflection, intuition, and connection to the Divine Feminine.
- Selenite – Cleanses and recharges your toolkit, holding light for the month ahead.
When you begin a new phase, hold one stone that feels right and take a quiet breath. Ask it to remind you of your intention for the week.
Ritual Focus and Reflection
Full Moon in Aries (7 Oct): Write down what you wish to release. Speak it once, thank it, and burn or bury it safely.
10 10 Portal (10 Oct): Write ten blessings and ten goals. Keep the list in your journal until the end of the year.
New Moon in Libra (21 Oct): Set intentions for harmony and self worth. Light a candle for balance.
Samhain (31 Oct): Light a candle for your ancestors. Write one thing you are grateful for this year and one lesson you will carry forward.
Closing Thoughts
October moves between light and shadow like a breath. Each phase teaches something about rhythm, when to act, when to rest, and when to let go. The Moon reminds us that we are cyclical beings, not meant to live at a constant pace.
Work with the stones that speak to you, trust your timing, and remember that alignment is not forced. It unfolds naturally when you stay open. The Divine Feminine teaches that rest is just as sacred as creation, and both belong to the same flow.
Be kind to yourself. Be gentle with the process. Let the Moon lead and you will always find your way back to balance.
